[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/vztahy-v-rodine\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/vztahy-v-rodine\/","headline":"Vztahy v rodin\u011b","name":"Vztahy v rodin\u011b","description":"Vztahy v rodin\u011b ob\u010das b\u00fdvaj\u00ed z\u00e1ludn\u00fd o\u0159\u00ed\u0161ek, kter\u00fd \u010dasto nejde rozlousknout. Ano, mo\u017en\u00e1 to je hloup\u00e9 p\u0159irovn\u00e1n\u00ed, ale tak to hold je.\u00a0Zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme se na jednotliv\u00e9 vztahy. Za\u010dneme vztahy mezi sourozenci. Prvn\u00ed variantou m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, \u017ee jsou dv\u011b d\u011bti (jedno star\u0161\u00ed a jedno mlad\u0161\u00ed). Z pohledu toho star\u0161\u00edho to m\u00e1 n\u011bkolik negativ. Jako prvorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b si […]","datePublished":"2021-12-06","dateModified":"2023-05-11","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/15c4177f6d86975c976af12ba80b10af7add2f97f8786f8cf1596253472c0ea7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/15c4177f6d86975c976af12ba80b10af7add2f97f8786f8cf1596253472c0ea7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"alfagrif.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128317.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128317.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/vztahy-v-rodine\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":472,"articleBody":"Vztahy v rodin\u011b ob\u010das b\u00fdvaj\u00ed z\u00e1ludn\u00fd o\u0159\u00ed\u0161ek, kter\u00fd \u010dasto nejde rozlousknout. Ano, mo\u017en\u00e1 to je hloup\u00e9 p\u0159irovn\u00e1n\u00ed, ale tak to hold je.\u00a0Zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme se na jednotliv\u00e9 vztahy. Za\u010dneme vztahy mezi sourozenci. Prvn\u00ed variantou m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, \u017ee jsou dv\u011b d\u011bti (jedno star\u0161\u00ed a jedno mlad\u0161\u00ed). Z pohledu toho star\u0161\u00edho to m\u00e1 n\u011bkolik negativ. Jako prvorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b si obl\u00edb\u00ed pozornost rodi\u010d\u016f, jejich l\u00e1sku, obj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed, \u010dten\u00ed poh\u00e1dek, d\u00e1rky, koupen\u00ed v\u0161eho, na co si uk\u00e1\u017ee. Jen\u017ee pak se narod\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b druh\u00e9 a v\u0161echny privilegia, kter\u00e1 m\u011blo to prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, tak se p\u0159esouv\u00e1 na to druh\u00e9. T\u00edm p\u00e1dem prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b poci\u0165uje samotu. V\u011bt\u0161ina pozornosti se p\u0159esouv\u00e1 na druh\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, a to prvn\u00ed jde stranou, pak je to takov\u00e9, \u017ee ten star\u0161\u00ed mus\u00ed br\u00e1t toho mlad\u0161\u00edho sourozence sebou ven, co\u017e je pro prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b potupa. Z toho m\u016f\u017ee vzniknout nen\u00e1vist k sourozenci a t\u00edm i odstrkov\u00e1n\u00ed a naschv\u00e1ly. To se nel\u00edb\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016fm, a tak trestaj\u00ed prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, ale nevid\u00ed ten d\u016fvod. \u010casem se to m\u016f\u017ee zlep\u0161it nebo zhor\u0161it. \u010c\u00edm jsme star\u0161\u00ed, t\u00edm jsme i moud\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed. Pokud prvorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159ijme sv\u00e9ho sourozence s l\u00e1skou a dob\u0159e, tak vznikne \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 pouto, kter\u00e9 je pln\u00e9 ochrany, pomoci a ob\u011btov\u00e1n\u00ed, a to se moc \u010dasto nest\u00e1v\u00e1.\u00a0Co se t\u00fd\u010de vztahu s rodi\u010di, tak d\u011bti to berou podle toho, jak se k nim rodi\u010de chovaj\u00ed, co jim pak zakazuj\u00ed a dovol\u00ed. Takhle by to b\u00fdt nem\u011blo. Spr\u00e1vn\u011b by rodi\u010de m\u011bli nad d\u011btmi dr\u017eet pevnou ruku, ale nedr\u017eet je po\u0159\u00e1d doma, aby se jen u\u010dili a u\u010dili, aby d\u011bti nemohly j\u00edt s kamar\u00e1dy ven, p\u0159espat u nich atd. Je dobr\u00e9 naj\u00edt ur\u010dit\u011b kompromisy. \u010casto vztah s rodi\u010di m\u016f\u017ee u d\u011bt\u00ed naru\u0161it rozvod rodi\u010d\u016f. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, jak je d\u00edt\u011b star\u00e9. Pokud je to d\u00edt\u011b do cca 8 let, tak to tak \u00fapln\u011b pochopit nemus\u00ed, ale pak ty star\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti si to dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b dob\u0159e d\u00e1t dohromady a v\u00ed o co jde. Pokud je d\u00edt\u011b hodn\u011b ch\u00e1pav\u00e9, v\u00ed, pro\u010d se rodi\u010de rozvedli a v\u00ed, na \u010d\u00ed stran\u011b je ta chyba, m\u016f\u017eou sv\u00e9mu rodi\u010di p\u0159estat d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. Nebudou s n\u00edm cht\u00edt nap\u0159\u00edklad ani tr\u00e1vit \u010das, proto\u017ee t\u0159eba tat\u00ednek si na\u0161el za maminku n\u00e1hradu (nebo naopak) a to je pro d\u00edt\u011b prost\u011b zrada.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.9\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Vztahy v rodin\u011b","item":"https:\/\/www.alfagrif.cz\/vztahy-v-rodine\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]